We are always told that we should “be who we really are”. But the point is, that we are ALWAYS being who we really are!
The only problem with that is that our mind and/or the world has a problem with who we are. And that’s how the confusion begins within, and extends without.
First you need to understand that you are always who you want to be. And becoming consciously aware of that, is a long road in itself.
It takes a lot of real de-programming of the mind, a complete change in the way that you think, to achieve that. Until finally, you come to the realization, that there was
never a moment in your life when you weren’t who you really wanted to be.